1 "While much has been written about so-called crises of faith in the life cycle of individuals, what is seldom recognized and even when so recognized, usually dismissed, is that societies also undergo crises of faith.
A societal crisis of faith occurs when the values that produced a particular incarnation of a society no longer correspond to the values held by the individuals and organizations holding economic, political, and social power in that society. Paradoxically, these value changes seem to occur first on a social level. In reality the change are already far advanced by the time they appear, because in most societies social standing and mobility lag behind economic and political power. Those with economic power seldom wish to flaunt values at variance with social norms, and those in the political arena prefer a protective coloration that in fact straddles the perceived range of values, while ostensibly preferring the most popular of values...
Although all stable societies rest firmly on a consensus of values, invariably the individuals in those societies prefer not to discuss those values, except in glittering generalities, not because they are unimportant, but because they are so important that to discuss them seriously might open them to question and reinterpretation. Thus, the very protections of a society's values preclude any wide-scale and public reevaluation of those values and any recognition of a potential crisis of values.
Since 'morality' is a sum total of those values, the first public symptom of a crisis of values is usually a series of comments about the growing immorality of society - almost always directed at the young of a society who have absorbed what their elders are in fact doing, rather than professing..."
2 "What is 'ethical' or moral? A general definition is that actions that conform to a 'right set of principles' are ethical. Such a definition begs the question. Whose principles? On what are those principles based? Do those principles arise from reasoned development by rational scholars? Or from 'divine' inspiration? Does it matter, so long as they inspire moral and ethical behavior?
For some, it does matter, as it did for the ancient author who claimed that without a deity, every action is permitted.
In practice, with or without a deity, every action is permitted unless human social structures preclude it. Yet, on what principles are those social structures based? Ethics and morality?
Such questioning can quickly run circles, especially since most individuals wish to think well of themselves, and it is difficult to think well of oneself if one defines one's own activities as immoral or unethical. For example, genocide can be rationalized as an ethical means to racial purity, or as a means for societal survival, and both purity and survival can easily be rationalized, and have been throughout history, as ethical.
Are behaviors that perpetuate a given society ethical per se? Are values handed down by prophets and religious figures as the word of a deity necessarily more ethical than those developed by ethicists and scholars?
Theocracies and other societies using religious motives, or pretext, have undertaken genocide, torture, and war. Ideologues without the backing of formal religious doctrine or established theocratic organizations have done the same.
The obvious conclusion is that 'moral' values must be ethical in and of themselves, and not through religious or secular authority or rationalized logic. This lead to the critical questions. How can one define what is ethical without resorting to authority, religious doctrine, or societal expediency? And whom will any society trust to make such a judgment, particularly one not based on authority, doctrine or expediency?"
3 "Over the past three millennia, social scientists, historians, and ethicists have all debated the history, purpose, and reason for the development and subsequent failure of ethical systems in society after society. From these endless studies, several facts appear obvious, yet ignored.
First, the ancient Judeo-Christian concept of 'original sin' as defined in basic prediaspora Catholic/Christian theology was and remains an extremely useful tool for social indoctrination, because (1) it provides a reason for evil while also allowing people to accept that evil is not the fault of the given individual; (2) supplies a rationale for why people need to be taught ethics and manners; and (3) still requires that people adhere to an acceptable moral code.
Second, studies point to only a small minority of human beings having a strong predilection toward either 'morality' or 'immorality'. This has historically posed a problem for any civil society based on purely secular rule because (1) society in the end is based on some form of self-restraint; and (2) the impetus to require self-discipline and to learn greater awareness of what is evil and unacceptable lacks the religious underpinnings present in a theocracy or a society with a strong theocratic presence. Likewise, history has also demonstrated most clearly that the majority of individuals are uncomfortable in accepting a moral code that is not based on the 'revelation' of a divine being, because in matters of personal ethics, each believes his or her ethics are superior to any not of 'divine' origin.
As transparently fallacious as this widely accepted personal belief may be, equally transparent and fallacious - and even more wide accepted - are the ethical and moral systems accepted as created by divinities - and merely revealed to the prophets of each deity for dissemination to the 'faithful'. Throughout history, this has been a useful but transparent fiction because the 'divine' origin of moral codes obviates the need for deciding between various human codes. Humans being humans, however, the conflict then escalates into a struggle over whose god or whose interpretation of god is superior, rather than focusing on the values of the codes themselves..."
4 "Traditionally, one of the fundamental questions behind every considered attempt to define ethical behavior has been whether there is an absolute standard of morality or whether ethics can be defined only in terms of an individual and the culture in which that individual lives.
Both universal absolutism and cultural relativism are in themselves unethical. Not only is the application of universal absolutism impractical, but it can be unethical, because the world is so complex that there are bound to be conflicts between such standards in actual application, unless, of course, the standards are so vague that they convey only general sentiments.
'Be kind to one another' is good general guidance, but it does not qualify as an ethical standard because the range of interpretation of the meaning of 'kind' is so broad as to allow individuals incredible discretion. That does not even take into account the problems when society must deal with unethical or violent individuals.
There is indeed an ethical absolute for any situation in which an individual may find himself or herself., but each of these absolutes exists only for that individual and that time and situation. This individual 'absolutism' is not the same thing as cultural relativism, because cultures can be, and often have been, totally unethical and immoral, even by their own professed standards. That a practice or standard is culturally accepted does not make it ethical. There have been cultures that though themselves moral that practiced slavery, undertook genocide, committed infanticide, and enforced unequal rights based on gender or sexual orientation.
The principal practical problems with individual moral absolutism are that, first, one cannot implement a workable societal moral code on that basis, and second, that any individual can claim unethical behaviors to be moral in a particular situation, which, given human nature, would soon result in endless self-justification for the most unethical and immoral acts. That said, the practical problems do not invalidate absolute individual morality, only its societal application...
In practice, what is necessary for a society is a secular legal structure that affirms basic ethical principles (e.g., one should not kill, or injure others; one should not steal or deceive, etc.), and that also provides a structured forum, such as courts, in which an accused has an unbiased opportunity to show that, under the circumstances, his behavior was as moral as the situation allowed. Such a societal structure works, however, as demonstrated by history, only when the majority of individuals in the society are willing to sacrifice potential self-interest for the value of justice, and such societies have seldom existed for long, because most individuals eventually place immediate personal gain above long-term societal preservation.
The faster and more widely this 'gospel of greed' is adopted, the more quickly a society loses any ethical foundation - and the more rapidly it sows the seeds of its own destruction."
(adapted from "Values, Ethics, and Society", Exton Land, New Oisin, Tara 1117 S.E.)
*scratch head, very hard*
ReplyDeleteAll these years, Singapore had achieved No 1 here and there but we have been moving so fast that Singaporeans don't even have the time to sit down and think whether a moral values are more important that the economic growth.
ReplyDeleteTake for example the launch of the Citibank new credit card. Banks need not care for moral value , bank only interested and will only talk about their own interests and money. So who gave permission for them to launch this card?
But then after hearing the Taiwanese Professor being killed by a prisoner released by Chen Shui-bian, I felt that our society in terms of value is more fortunate than the Taiwanese.
It's a description that would fit Singapore ... in 2 scenarios.
ReplyDeleteFirst scenario would be the recent revival of debate over homosexuality laws. By and large, there is a growing number of Singaporeans from all parts of society who are not against or indifferent to those who wish to engage in homosexual relationships. Nonetheless, the anti-homosexuality law is unlikely to be abolished any time soon because those in the legislation usually prefer to take a less controversial stance and cater to a wider range of opinions - rather than support an opinion that might be most popular, but collectively is only a minority of the whole society.
Second scenario is of course on forum letters accusing the youths of lacking respect for their elders, but in fact, the youths had not learned what is proper respect from their elders.
"Second scenario is of course on forum letters accusing the youths of lacking respect for their elders, but in fact, the youths had not learned what is proper respect from their elders."
ReplyDeleteI concur.
I concur with Snowy's second scenario. Instead of bashing up my less respectful peers, I think the elders should just take a darned step back and see just what and where things went wrong...after all, the apple can only fall so far from the tree...
ReplyDeleteYes, I do agree that some parents are being in remiss for not giving their children the values that would make them a more livable person. However, what is advocated here seems like the case of 儿之错, 父之过. Is this the time for classes for parents? Seems like it is all right for one to be obnoxious because parents do not properly teach him or her? Then I suppose those killers and murderers in prison should be excused because they have a bad childhood or because their parents did not teach them what is right or wrong. Or orphans without parents would certainly be killers and murderers because they don't have a parent to teach them what is right or wrong?
ReplyDeleteI am not for people writing into the forum about the young, but certainly expect the young to be able to think for themselves. Surely we have enough of people with values for them to follow?
I think it is not so much a defence for the rude youngsters but rather, pointing out that being rude is not a trait unique to youngsters, especially if their elders do not have good manners themselves.
ReplyDeleteAnd if we pursue why their elders do not have good manners, it is probable that it is related to upbringing too.
Yup, it is not too late to set up classes for parents. Schools can preach all they want, but they're undermined from the start if the kids are allowed to be rude outside and at home.
Until being rude is a crime, classes will not be compulsory. And I certainly don't want "Courtesy Police" around like "Morality Police" in some countries.
But yes, I do like the idea of conducting ongoing classes for parents of students.
Perhaps what's required isn't formal classes per se. This smacks of brainwashing... and besides, as an Asian community, we need to take into account "face-saving".
ReplyDeleteWhat's required is perhaps better civic consciousness amongst their peers. You become the guardians of your own community. You see someone talking too loudly, quietly whisper to the offender to tone down. You see someone not moving to a side to let other's pass, tap him/her on the shoulder and he'll/she'll probably already be able to take the hint. You see someone peeling prawns on a public bus, gently tell her that it's very smelly and she's stinking up the whole bus.
Do it politely without scorn and I dare say people will listen.
None other than the ruling body, MAS, aka the Godfather/mother. The legislative and ruling bodies of a nation usually sets the moral tone and direction. So in effect, it is the government who has relaxed their controls.
ReplyDeleteBanks cannot be blamed because like every other business, they have to look at the bottomline. While what they are doing now with the easy credit is not illegal, some may feel it is unethical or immoral. Even charities and NPOs have to contend with balancing their books, although their primary concern is not profit.
But I think the ultimate responsibility lies with the consumer and the professionals, who must spread financial awareness. If one insists on being called an adult, then stand up and be counted like one - and that includes taking responsibility for making life's important decisions. For this very same reason, I have ceased to consider myself a child the day I received my first paycheck and received my first CPF statement. If I was old enough to be contributing to my own CPF, then I was certainly old enough to take responsibility for my financial health. But kids nowadays depend on the Bank of Mum and Dad.
It is already no secret that Citibank is targeting that segment of society in hopes that they can build up a long-lasting relationship from there. I guess what they don't realise is how fickle youth can be. Believe me, if tomorrow ABN-Amro offers a credit limit of $1,000 for some new-fangled card, those youth will flock there.
Sometimes when I meet senior citizens who have the manners of a spoiled 3-yr old brat, I really don't know whether to laugh, cry or blow up...
ReplyDeleteThat's where it gets tricky. We must still try and adhere to our cultural values, to respect our elders and hence, a direct confrontation would not be desirable nor acceptable in my opinion. Perhaps, the way forward in this instance would be for the younger person to seek the aid of another older person who would be civic conscious enough to take up the suggestion to "whisper" to the offender.
ReplyDeleteThis I realise, requires a mature citizenry, something we are far from being able to achieve. Maturity means taking personal responsibility, and that is what we should be striving to achieve, not sitting back and merely calling to the government or some "higher" body to run classes or take action. Ain't we a "COMMUNITY"?
Egad. Don't I know it.
ReplyDeleteWhy don't MAS released this $500 limit card along with the all other type of credit cards in Singapore earlier ? They have thought of the welfare of the people and wants to control those young adults ---to learn to save their money rather than to spend it carelessly especially when they cannot resist the temptation of the word ' SALE' .
ReplyDeleteHave you ever give a thought why did the MAS wants to release it at this moment after so many years?
Have you ever thought why the govt is now encouraging people to spent rather than to save their hard-earn money?
The problem is Singapore straddles between being an Asian community as well as a modern cosmopolitan society.
ReplyDeleteThe fluidity in how the people morph between the two paradigms is very dynamic and not a regulated process, leading to inevitable clashes.
In a truly Asian community, almost everyone, from the illiterate to the educated, would have been steeped in the cultural norms and traditions to the extent that even gangsters couldn't claim to be ignorant.
As per your suggestion to remind others in soft polite approaches, it is actually quite applicable not just to Asian communities, human beings in general being more open to gentle requests rather than being snapped at.
Actually, while I do agree that it brings dynamism, it also brings with it the negative effect of allowing people to conveniently switch between the two to escape responsibility, when certain cultural norms are not in their favour.
ReplyDeleteExactly what I was thinking. Thankfully, we have people like you around.
ReplyDeletetsk tsk tsk... is that sarcasm I detect hmmmm...? :P
ReplyDeleteOnly if being a quintessential Chinese scholar-gentleman is something to be embarassed about ... which I do not think so ...
ReplyDeleteNow, if I were to overdo it and say you are so exemplary that you disdain any pursuit of money, sex or power, then that would become rude and sarcastic of me, wouldn't you say? ;-)
Hmmm.... I can't quite put my long mandarin fingernailed finger on it but this isn't as innocent a statement as it seems on first read....
ReplyDeleteI have a different perspective. Singapore is made up of communities that are getting increasingly insular. A community requires the individual to think of him or herself as a member of one that she contributes to and cares for, and is affected by that community in turn. For example its no point thinking of yourself as part of the Chinese community here when you have no interaction with them beyond your family. Your so-called community is limited to your family. Real communities of course exist. The strong communities here in Singapore are divided into religious, social levels and occasionally ethnic lines. When I was a kid I truly lived in a community. HDB, but we knew all our neighbours as well as relatives and sometimes closer, we would bring food over to each other, adults were really like uncles and aunties to us. The kids played together and we knew each other living rooms as well as our own. Today, I can't even tell you the names of my neighbours although we are friendly enough but I tell you its not the same.
ReplyDeleteTerms like 'cosmopolitan' are just BS phrases thrown around by young people who are disassociated to the culture of their forefathers. What they really mean is oh, you know honestly I am as sophisticated as they come I am really very westernised in my thinking, modern and liberal unbound by those backward practices of Asia, of course I still maintain my Asian facade, because you know what, its 'chic' to be Asian, but mind you, I am really cosmopolitan.
The importance of a sense of community cannot be emphasized enough. It is one reason why community centres exist, to bring together the people. In one respect they have not succeeded because the very ones with the strongest sense of disconnect with the community at large are the very ones who scoff at CCs seeing them as backward and only for senior citizens/or the aunties and uncles. It is also why I think the government with their simplistic message of 'home is where the family is' either do not get it or more likely are unsure of how to go about it. Home is where the family is, true. but families can be moved. "I think my prospects are better/I prefer life in Australia, what the heck just move the family, not that big a deal, when we pretty much keep to ourselves, only thing I might miss is my church community but no matter we will find an equally good church over there,"
What is more important is actually the sense of community, the sense of belonging to one.
Our Chinese forefathers (and most other cultures in fact) understood intrinsically the importance of community. The first opportunity they got they build their own communities in foreign lands. They have been criticised for their insular nature their unwillingness to integrate into society at large. Of course their critics are right. But those critics forget if they did not do so they would have lost their culture, for that is one of the functions of community, to preserve your culture and heritage. Culture is something that is living. You cannot learn it from a book, it is transmitted down from one generation to the next.
Singapore has its challenges. Not many other countries has two-thirds of its citizenry unable to speak the national language. How many countries do you know of where grandparents have difficulty conversing with their grandchildren because they do not speak the same language? Will we overcome these challenges? Almost definitely, whether I will like the future form of that society remains to be seen, but I am a born optimist. :-)
Now, now, what else could a lovable snowy white beagle be but innocent ... *blinking puppy eyes*
ReplyDeleteUhm, I think, at least among ourselves and our mutual friends, we can distinguish between those who put on facades and those who are truly non-Asian culturally as a result of the environment(s) they experience(d).
ReplyDeleteFor myself, I do not associate cosmopolitan with being sophisticated or even westernised (western being just a label created by easterners for the exotic West).
Being cosmopolitan simply means one is exposed to a diversity of culture and has learned to get along in a variety of different settings, neither confined to a vernacular outlook, nor be hostile to any.
Undoubtedly, the term is oft misunderstood and even abused. But then again, youngsters of every modern generation go through the same phase of feeling disassociated to the culture of their forefathers, the degree varying with the individuals.
kekeke, you're just as susceptible to labels...
ReplyDeleteCase in point. Are you equating "Asian" with "not-modern cosmopolitan? Hmmmm?
The reason no other country has two-thirds of its citizenry unable to speak the national language is because no other country has chosen a politically motivated choice that is so detached from the actual demographic reality of the country.
ReplyDeleteA fair comparison for countries where grandparents have linguistic barrier with their grandchildren would probably be to look at the migrant sections of those countries rather than the native population.
Consider the third generations of Chinese-British, Chinese-French, Chinese-Australians, Chinese-Americans and Chinese-Canadians. The only mitigation at the moment is that most of these countries require the first generation to pick up the official language of that country, whereas in Singapore, they get along well enough without picking up a new language.
In contrast, the Hispanic migrant communities in the USA is still largely able to transmit Spanish to the third generation because that community is still by and large much confined among themselves, circumstances providing for grandparents to care for the grandchildren personally, and the proximity of USA to Latin America.
We must understand one thing, most of the grandparents in Singapore grew up in a colonial country where their attachments to ancestral country is stronger than attachment to this British colony. Their grandchildren grew up in an independent country that is establishing its own identity.
Before the grandparents could fully think of themselves as Malaysians after 1959, they were supposed to think of themselves as Singaporeans in 1965.
The reason no other country has two-thirds of its citizenry unable to speak the national language is because no other country has chosen a politically motivated choice that is so detached from the actual demographic reality of the country.
ReplyDeleteA fair comparison for countries where grandparents have linguistic barrier with their grandchildren would probably be to look at the migrant sections of those countries rather than the native population.
Consider the third generations of Chinese-British, Chinese-French, Chinese-Australians, Chinese-Americans and Chinese-Canadians. The only mitigation at the moment is that most of these countries require the first generation to pick up the official language of that country, whereas in Singapore, they get along well enough without picking up a new language.
In contrast, the Hispanic migrant communities in the USA is still largely able to transmit Spanish to the third generation because that community is still by and large much confined among themselves, circumstances providing for grandparents to care for the grandchildren personally, and the proximity of USA to Latin America.
We must understand one thing, most of the grandparents in Singapore grew up in a colonial country where their attachments to ancestral country is stronger than attachment to this British colony. Their grandchildren grew up in an independent country that is establishing its own identity.
Before the grandparents could fully think of themselves as Malaysians after 1959, they were supposed to think of themselves as Singaporeans in 1965.
Oh I agree, but I think we both agree as well that is not the meaning intended when used by many.
ReplyDeleteIn fact the term has come so far from its original meaning that it is often misleading to use it any more. It has become yet another label to used fashionably.
That depends on whether the label is self-proclaimed or put on by others.
ReplyDeleteWhat is the point being raised when one identifies oneself as Asian in outlook?
It asserts one as holding Asian values and cultures.
What comes to mind when you come across the term cosmopolitan?
An American who is cosmopolitan is one whose outlook is shaped by a variety of different experiences from outside America, distinguished from an American whose outlook is shaped by wholly homegrown influences.
The same applies to a European who is cosmopolitan.
When the term cosmopolitan was used in the early 20th century, it was still very ethnocentric in nature, the concept reserved by Europeans and Americans for themselves. Its roots though, went far back in history to 5th century BC when Diogenes of Sinope (d. 412BC) was asked where he came from and he answered “I am a citizen of the world (kosmopolitês)". Back then, it referred to his outlook and identity shaped not by a single culture but in a large city where different cultures meet.
Modern cosmopolitanism came about in the second half of the 20th century which upholds pluralism rather than any nation-state-centric outlooks.
One can be an Asian, and be (modern) cosmopolitan.
But when one talks about being in an Asian community and *hence* conducts oneself in a certain way, that precludes cosmopolitanism in the context.
Hi Snowy, my statements were not meant as criticism of that policy but to highlight how Singapore is different in some of the challenges we face compared to other countries. Your point about migrant community actually brings this into clearer focus; whereas those communities are minorities in their countries, we are a country of migrants. Because we face different challenges, our solutions will take a different face as well.
ReplyDeleteI agree, and that is why the sense of community is so important, for in large part our sense of identity come from our community and hence we find our place in society.
ReplyDeleteActually, I don't have any issues either if it is a criticism.
ReplyDeleteGiven the current situation, having Malay as a National Language is a farce.
I wouldn't object to scrapping it, but I also wouldn't object to a serious effort at teaching it either.
It is always good to learn more languages, and not inappropriate for Singapore, given its geographical location.
The experience from the language barrier when Singapore despatched an SAF relief team to Indonesia comes to mind.
Sometimes, in history, things happened a certain way and that's the way it is. You are right that there is little practical point in having it as a National Language. But neither am I in favour of scrapping it because some smart aleck is going ask, so what is going to replace it? I prefer to see it as a relic of our heritage. Its a bit like our National Athem, doesn't matter that most can't remember exactly what all the words mean, but it is part of our heritage baggage that we carry forward to the next generation, they act as reminders of our history and the forces that shape us as a people.
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ReplyDeleteActually, many countries do not even designate a National Language, they just designate Official Languages.
ReplyDeleteEnglish is not designated as national language nor official language anywhere in the US Constitution.
In any case, most of the ex-colleagues I have in USA, stated that they speak 'American' and not 'English'.
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